"You see… no one knows what love truly means… love is a
subjective feeling. It depends on the person whose feeling
it… a hate that has passion in it can be define as
love…" Touya. said as if lecturing a very curious child.
"Love has three components: intimacy, passion and
commitment… I didn't say that if one or two are lost, we
couldn't call it love… If you only have intimacy, it's
more of liking; If only passion or what mostly people feel,
that's infatuation; and if only commitment is involve, which
is seen mostly in arranged marriage, then that one is an
empty love…. So you see, these three---intimacy, passion
and commitment---should be always together if you want to
have a 'true love'." 

"But you've been hurt… she left you." 

"That's only a small part in loving someone… Even though
the three components are there, you cannot tell that your
life with your partner will go smoothly like you planned…
The hurt made me stronger and made me a better man. I do
believe in a saying that if you love someone, you should let
her go…" funny how I can say these things without any
worries.